[release-0.9] Add validation for Deployment queue-name to fail fast

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #3555

/assign mbobrovskyi

Added validation for Deployment queue-name to fail fast

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[mbobrovskyi]

/assign @mimowo

[mbobrovskyi]

/retest

[mbobrovskyi]

/lgtm

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LGTM label has been added.

Git tree hash: 9f83eb43bed89809c1916da877a2fc5849435ffa

[mbobrovskyi]

/kind bug

[mimowo]

/lgtm /approve

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