Dictation: What TURNS OFF Each of the 16 Personalities?

[hyunsik-yoon]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pAhwwciXg4A

[hyunsik-yoon]

dictation 1

what do each of 16 types of personality find unattractive? what's gonna keep them away? what's gonna make them go 'eww'? but not in a good way. not like ooh but more like eww

it's important to know becuase if you trying to atrtract someone to you for whatever reason that you crush or maybe you wannt know them better as a friend you wanna make sure that you're not doing things that will repel them or this video could be very helpful if you trying to get someone to not like you

bang. i really want jummy to live me alone and i know he is this this type then let me do this thing

enough dilly dallying chuncky monkeys. let's get into it. did Frank just call me a chunky monkey?

ESTP's usually have a good eye what is in or cool KEWL they understand trend, how to accerssarize and in general the fact is their appearance is reflecting their social status. so something that can be really unattractive to ESTP is someone who make then less than look cool or less attractive by association.

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dictation 2

https://youtu.be/pAhwwciXg4A?t=57

hey, that's that thing you say, Frank. basically, don't cramp their style.

so if you show up to a party as an ESTPs + 1 wearing pajama, while their dress to impress they'll disown you faster than you can say Faux pas that's right. i am throwing french terminology at you.

the energetic ESTP always looking for next adventure they can feel really drag down by anything that can stop their adventure, like work, life, or responsibility.

not saying that they are irresponsible, just saying they don't want responsibility first and foremost. they are type of person that would rather than jump out of a plane than do their taxes. with or without a parachute.

so ~it could~ _who does tax with parachute? because of this they tend to find individuals who live for the 9 to 5 ~brown~ grind never let loose to be buzzkills.

This isn't the saying you can't be work focus or professional but if you never set aside time to have a good time or even worse if you critize ESFP to wanting to have fun, they'll be out the door before you can say TGIF

Thank goodness, i am watching Frank James.

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dictation 3

https://youtu.be/pAhwwciXg4A?t=118

probably the most organized of 16 types. The ISTJ likes everything in order. they are type of people who alphabetize their can goods and color code of their socks. as such, they are not gonna attractive individuals who carelessly messy or unorganized with an emphasis on carelessly.

if you're someone who can get a little messy, i mean, who ~does it~ doesn't, am i right? but then you clean it up, it won't be a problem.

but if you like thing stay unorganized forever or if you're type of person who only cleans up once in a blue moon, you gonna find the ISTJ wanting to get away from you with great speed.

ISFJ likes their friendship and relationship to be personal and even sentimental. valuing the experiences and memories they create.

they're type of people who take a million of pictures and save every ticket stub. this leads them to be the most likely to stop and smell the roses. to enjoy things instead of just rushing through them. as such, ISFJs gonna feel less appreciated about individuals who either rush them through such moment, or who don't respect their appreciation for it.

you don't have to be sentimental like ISFJ, you just have to acknowledge that it's OK for them to be that way. cause they feel like you're rushing them through life, they're gonna ~piss~ peace out.

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dictation 4

https://youtu.be/pAhwwciXg4A?t=192

ESTJs love to give advice. even if it isn't always the most appreciated by everyone around them. they are the type of people that always jump in no matter what you are doing, correct you if you're doing it wrong.

if you have a problem that ESTJ likely has a solution for you, that solution's generally gonna be straightforward and by the books, the right way to do it. they are not going to lead you astray.

so what is unattractive to ESTJ is someone who consistently struggle despite the ESTJ is giving them the right way to fix the problem. Especially if you are just like outright ignoring their advice.

to be attractive to ESTJ, you need to be able to take advice and criticism without feeling personally attacked. and if you want extra point, you want brownie point, give them an even better solution they didn't even know existed.

i mean when you can. i don't expect you to come up with something every time. at that point, you just come across know-it-all.

Known for their desire and ambition to achieve, ENTJ finds themselves pushing for greater and greater height. They are type of people who won't settle for anything less than the championship. Metaphorically

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dictation 5

https://youtu.be/pAhwwciXg4A?t=254

while they might not recognize that not everyone around them is competitive as they are they are still gonna be less attractive to individuals who don't believe that they have the capability to achieve their goal.

to ENTJ, no goal as out of ~rich~ each with effort and one of their goal in life is often being able to speak correctly. and inspiring that same mental attitude in other people.

yes ENTJs are competitive but they also want you to win as well. so someone is unable to adapt some desire to grow or develop some go-getterness, ENTJs are not gonna wanna around them for long.

ESFJs are like party planners of personality world. they are always ensure that everying run smoothly and that traditions are upheld.

they're the type of people to make sure that the cake is cut at the right time and then everyone is having a good time.

i said time twice and that kinda annoys me.

this leads ESFJ to find individuals who consistently go against the grain especially if they do so without the reason unattractive.

while a rebel with a good cause might be ok in ESFJ's eyes someone who causes problem for the group with no good reason is gotta quickly pushing ESJF away

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dictation 6

https://youtu.be/pAhwwciXg4A?t=326

As the type mostly focused on the future of people ENFJs spend a lot of time trying to do good in their friend circle and larger community.

It is very common for them to stand up for the little guy or go out of the way to help someone in need as such ENFJs gonna feel less attractive towards people who don't ever show a selfless side.

if you are the type of person who ?? at a homeless person who's asking for some change, it's not gonna be a good look with ENFJ.

we can all be selfish from time to time but ENFJs like it when you are at the very ~risk~ least acknoledge those moments of selfishness and then try do a little bit better.

ISFP's live life through lens of passion. what motivates and inspires them.

they are looking for the next thing that ignites the flame within their hearts and get them excited whether it's art, writing, personal obsession, or interest, anything they feel stringly about

what ISFP finds unattractive are those aren't able to appreciate the intensity of importance of their passion. it's like if ISFP came to you with a painting they made and they told you that they pour their heart so into it and you respond with 'oh, it;s cute' they;ll lose itnerst in you faster than something that's real fast.

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Dictation 1 expressions

• Enough dilly dallying, my chunky monkeys.
  • "Dilly dallying" means wasting time or procrastinating.
  • In the given sentence, it is used to urge or prompt someone to stop wasting time and get to the point or task at hand.
  • "chunky monkey"
  • a playful term that can be used to affectionately refer to a group of people, particularly children or friends.
• by association
  • 뜻) not because of something you have done, but because of who you are associated with
  • "He was accused of being a criminal by association because he was often seen with known criminals."
  • "Contact an Arizona Attorney for Your Guilty by Association Case" (어떤 변호사 광고 해드라인)

dictation 2 expression

• don't cramp their style.
  • cramp: 쥐나다
• they'll disown you faster than you can say
  • disown: 의절하다
• live for the 9 to 5 grind never let loose to be buzzkills.
  • grind : 갈다. 지루한 일.
  • buzz : slang으로 행복 같은 뜻
  • buzzkill: 행복이나 즐거움을 없애는 사람, 물건
  • let loose: relax, be yourself
  • After a long week of work, he decided to let loose and have some fun with his friends.

Dictation 3 expressions

• please clean up once in a blue moon
• once in a blue moon : 가끔
  • "He visits his grandparents once in a blue moon."
  • "She treats herself to a spa day once in a blue moon."
  • 참고) blue moon은 full moon 중에서도 extra full moon이라고. 다음 blue moon은 8/30 에 나타난다고. "blue" 는 색을 의미하는 것은 아니며 old English 의 어떤 단어에서 변형되었다는 학설이 있음.
• As such : because of that
  • "He failed the test and as such had to retake the course"
  • "She was a foreigner and as such had difficulty finding a job."
• peace out: slang. Good-bye
  • "I have to go now. Peace out!"

Dictation 4 expressions

• if you are just like outright ignoring their advice.

• outright: completely, totally

  • "She outright refused to apologize for her mistake."
  • "The CEO was outright dismissive of the concerns raised by the employees."

• by the books: doing something according to established rules, procedures, or principles

  • "The accountant made sure that all financial transactions were done by the books."
  • "His policeman's decision was made by the book."

• brownie points: "brownie points" is often used to refer to gaining favor or approval from someone by doing something good

  • "She volunteered to work to get some brownie points with her boss."
  • "He bought his girlfriend flowers to score some brownie points after forgetting their anniversary."

• come across: give a certain impression (the person's behavior or attitude is creating a particular image or perception in the minds of those around them)

  • "Her tone of voice made her come across as unfriendly, even though she didn't mean to be rude."
  • "The article came across as biased because it only presented one side of the argument."

• know-it-all: someone who acts as if they know everything and are unwilling to consider other people's ideas

  • "He always interrupts others and offers unsolicited advice, making him come across as a know-it-all."

• metaphorically 은유적으로

Dictation 5 expressions

• to ENTJ, no goal is as out of reach with effort

• go-getterness: a person's proactive and ambitious attitude towards achieving their goals, someone who is motivated and driven to succeed, and who is willing to take risks

  • "Her go-getterness to succeed helped her climb the ranks of her company quickly."

• ENTJs are not gonna wanna around them for long.

• for long: for long time

• uphold: 어떤 중요한 사항이나 준수되어야할 사항이 유지된다

  • "that traditions are upheld"
  • "The school upholds a strict dress code policy, requiring all students to wear uniforms."

• go against the grain: behave in a way that is contrary to what is generally accepted or expected by society.

  • "The artist's work went against the grain of traditional art forms"

dictation 6 expressions

• selfless
• ENFJs like it when you are at the very least acknowledge those moments of selfishness