fix: resolve dependency conflicts

[wellwelwel]

Sorry for the unsolicited PR. Please, feel free to close as well.

This PR follows exactly the same purpose of https://github.com/sidorares/node-mysql2/pull/2988.

Small chores

• I noticed that package.json and package-lock.json weren't synchronized, I just adjusted that.
• Same idea for test script to use Node.js test runner.

Cache

This dependency change prevents conflicts for multiple major versions of the same package for the final user.

Also, it's interesting to note that even upgrading lru-cache to the same version for both named-placeholders and mysql2, this would still imply a premature breaking change in order to an outdated version of the lru-cache (8.x instead of 11.x).

To use the latest lru-cache, it requires Node.js v20.x.x or higher.

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[!NOTE] This PR doesn't depend on https://github.com/sidorares/node-mysql2/pull/2988 and vice versa. Each PR acts individually.

[wellwelwel]

@sidorares, to fix the release-please error:

✖ Error when creating branch
Error: release-please failed: Error creating Pull Request: Resource not accessible by integration

Go to:

Settings > Actions > General > Workflow permissions

Then, check this option 🙋🏻‍♂️