RCAL-933 Update filename on open

[WilliamJamieson]

Resolves [RCAL-933][(https://jira.stsci.edu/browse/RCAL-933)

Closes #spacetelescope/romancal#1443

This PR makes datamodels open with the meta.filename matching their filename on disk. This only works when opening via the rdm.open not asdf.open.

Tasks

• [ ] Update or add relevant roman_datamodels tests.
• [ ] Update relevant docstrings and / or docs/ page.
• [ ] Does this PR change any API used downstream? (If not, label with no-changelog-entry-needed.)
  • [ ] Write news fragment(s) in changes/: echo "changed something" > changes/<PR#>.<changetype>.rst (see below for change types).
  • [ ] Start a romancal regression test (https://github.com/spacetelescope/RegressionTests/actions/workflows/romancal.yml) with this branch installed ("git+https://github.com/<fork>/rad@<branch>").

News fragment change types:

- ``changes/.feature.rst``: new feature - ``changes/.bugfix.rst``: fixes an issue - ``changes/.doc.rst``: documentation change - ``changes/.removal.rst``: deprecation or removal of public API - ``changes/.misc.rst``: infrastructure or miscellaneous change

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Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests :white_check_mark:

Project coverage is 97.75%. Comparing base (087a60d) to head (279cac2). Report is 59 commits behind head on main.

Additional details and impacted files

```diff @@ Coverage Diff @@ ## main #409 +/- ## ========================================== + Coverage 97.56% 97.75% +0.19% ========================================== Files 30 37 +7 Lines 2788 3482 +694 ========================================== + Hits 2720 3404 +684 - Misses 68 78 +10 ```

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[WilliamJamieson]

Regression tests pass (save the known failure): https://github.com/spacetelescope/RegressionTests/actions/runs/11447600879/job/31849385144