chore: change the controller to use the latest build-deploy-image

[shreddedbacon]

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• [ ] Affected Issues have been mentioned in the Closing issues section
• [ ] Documentation has been written/updated
• [ ] PR title is ready for changelog and subsystem label(s) applied

kubectl-build-deploy-dind image has not been used for some time. This updates the default image to be the latest build-deploy-image instead.