chore: update dependencies to `community-dev`

[0xpatrickdev]

• uses community-dev for agoric dependencies instead of beta

• uses ses@18.8.8 for node 18.19 compat

• motivation: drop node 16 EOL ci is failing

To Do:

• Update tests for test-callSpread.js. It's reliant on setupBasicMints and zoeTestHelpers which are ~~no longer exported in @agoric/zoe master but not upgrade-13 / community-dev~~.

This failure is only with yarn install, not agoric install which CI still uses.

import { setup } from '@agoric/zoe/test/unitTests/setupBasicMints.js';
import { assertPayoutDeposit } from '@agoric/zoe/test/zoeTestHelpers.js';

  Uncaught exception in snippets/zoe/contracts/test-callSpread.js

  Error [ERR_MODULE_NOT_FOUND]: Cannot find module '/Users/0xpatrick/repos/agoric-documentation/node_modules/@agoric/zoe/test/unitTests/setupBasicMints.js' imported from /Users/0xpatrick/repos/agoric-documentation/snippets/zoe/contracts/test-callSpread.js

  ✖ snippets/zoe/contracts/test-callSpread.js exited with a non-zero exit code: 1