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The project organization repository for the LGTM: ShipIt! podcast.
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Learn how to not interrupt or talk over someone. #12

Closed AlexChesser closed 3 years ago

AlexChesser commented 3 years ago

From Crissie:

Alex, you get really excited about stuff, and you often try to encourage others, but it is also often operationalized by saying "YES AND ..." before they're finished talking. As someone who has been interviewed a lot, consider that the best interviewers I know, let their interviewees speak

You must also practice active listening. That means you are not waiting for them to pause so you can ask the next question on your list, but instead you must listen to what they've said and potentially, ask them about the details of that interaction.

... but also ... make sure you do have a list of questions and if things stall, you can go through those.