TabItem State Styling requires internal knowledge of control's coding (Bad Design Karma!!!)

[KentSwan]

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To style the content of a tabitem I have the following style settings.

    <Style Selector="TabControl">
        <Setter Property="Padding" Value="0 0 0 0"/>
        <Setter Property="Margin" Value="0 0 0 0"/>
    </Style>
    <Style Selector="TabItem">
        <Setter Property="BorderBrush" Value="Blue"/>
        <Setter Property="BorderThickness" Value="2"/>
        <Setter Property="CornerRadius" Value="8 8 0 0"/>
        <Setter Property="Background" Value="White"/>
        <Setter Property="Foreground" Value="Black"/>
    </Style>
    <Style Selector="TabItem:selected /template/ ContentPresenter#PART_ContentPresenter">
        <Setter Property="Background" Value="Black"/>
        <Setter Property="Foreground" Value="Yellow"/>
        <Setter Property="FontWeight" Value="Bold"/>
        <Setter Property="FontStyle" Value="Italic"/>
    </Style>

The first TabItem style sets the unselected tab style elements The second Tabitem style set the selected tab style elements.

My issue is that the :selected attribute tag should be suffient to do this without having to know and specify control internal information.

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When you add state attributes to a control component for styling, the backing concept is that the properties set override the base properties of that control component based on the state attribute being true or ignored if false.

I would thus like to have