Select targeted software frontend in a clever way

[dachengx]

What is the problem / what does the code in this PR do

Copy the codes from strax.Context.copy_to_frontend to strax.Context._get_target_sf and strax.Context._check_merge_per_chunk_storage_kwargs and use then in strax.Context.merge_per_chunk_storage.

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• Does it solve one of the open issues on github?

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[coveralls]

coverage: 90.342% (+0.02%) from 90.327% when pulling 9791b43a747de4d6e9fd4523057ee67b6f2b7383 on better_merge_per_chunk_storage into 0696ef5f4c6ec4d67ff9d43c733995c39ebf00f2 on master.