[in-proc] Updating System.Memory.Data reference

[fabiocav]

Backport of #10610

Pull request checklist

IMPORTANT: Currently, changes must be backported to the in-proc branch to be included in Core Tools and non-Flex deployments.

• [ ] My changes do not require documentation changes
  • [ ] Otherwise: Documentation issue linked to PR
• [ ] My changes should not be added to the release notes for the next release
  • [x] Otherwise: I've added my notes to release_notes.md
• [x] My changes do not need to be backported to a previous version
  • [ ] Otherwise: Backport tracked by issue/PR #issue_or_pr
• [x] My changes do not require diagnostic events changes
  • Otherwise: I have added/updated all related diagnostic events and their documentation (Documentation issue linked to PR)
• [x] I have added all required tests (Unit tests, E2E tests)