Emit socket event when message is edited

[zlshames]

1. If a message update is detected, and only the edited date changed, only emit a message update via the socket. (Ventura only)
2. If a message update is detected, and multiple dates have changed, including edit, emit both a fcm message and socket message (if Ventura)
3. If not Ventura, never emit a socket message
4. If no edit update, don't emit a socket mesage

[zlshames]

This should now be handled by the message update event