feat: speed up connect and disconnect

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Codecov Report

Patch coverage: 88.88% and project coverage change: +0.14% :tada:

Comparison is base (5f5a150) 83.30% compared to head (c4a0a3b) 83.45%. Report is 1 commits behind head on main.

Additional details and impacted files

```diff @@ Coverage Diff @@ ## main #247 +/- ## ========================================== + Coverage 83.30% 83.45% +0.14% ========================================== Files 28 28 Lines 3258 3263 +5 Branches 677 677 ========================================== + Hits 2714 2723 +9 + Misses 329 327 -2 + Partials 215 213 -2 ``` | [Files Changed](https://app.codecov.io/gh/Bluetooth-Devices/dbus-fast/pull/247?src=pr&el=tree&utm_medium=referral&utm_source=github&utm_content=comment&utm_campaign=pr+comments&utm_term=Bluetooth-Devices) | Coverage Δ | | |---|---|---| | [src/dbus\_fast/\_\_version\_\_.py](https://app.codecov.io/gh/Bluetooth-Devices/dbus-fast/pull/247?src=pr&el=tree&utm_medium=referral&utm_source=github&utm_content=comment&utm_campaign=pr+comments&utm_term=Bluetooth-Devices#diff-c3JjL2RidXNfZmFzdC9fX3ZlcnNpb25fXy5weQ==) | `0.00% <0.00%> (ø)` | | | [src/dbus\_fast/\_private/address.py](https://app.codecov.io/gh/Bluetooth-Devices/dbus-fast/pull/247?src=pr&el=tree&utm_medium=referral&utm_source=github&utm_content=comment&utm_campaign=pr+comments&utm_term=Bluetooth-Devices#diff-c3JjL2RidXNfZmFzdC9fcHJpdmF0ZS9hZGRyZXNzLnB5) | `71.42% <100.00%> (+0.41%)` | :arrow_up: | | [src/dbus\_fast/message\_bus.py](https://app.codecov.io/gh/Bluetooth-Devices/dbus-fast/pull/247?src=pr&el=tree&utm_medium=referral&utm_source=github&utm_content=comment&utm_campaign=pr+comments&utm_term=Bluetooth-Devices#diff-c3JjL2RidXNfZmFzdC9tZXNzYWdlX2J1cy5weQ==) | `71.84% <100.00%> (+0.20%)` | :arrow_up: | ... and [2 files with indirect coverage changes](https://app.codecov.io/gh/Bluetooth-Devices/dbus-fast/pull/247/indirect-changes?src=pr&el=tree-more&utm_medium=referral&utm_source=github&utm_content=comment&utm_campaign=pr+comments&utm_term=Bluetooth-Devices)

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