feat & docs: improve go1.16 to go 1.20, change package sqlserver to github.com/microsoft/go-mssqldb,and Update all packages to the latest version.

[Breeze0806]

Now we use the sqlserver driver library maintained by Microsoft .

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 50.00000% with 2 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 92.36%. Comparing base (1eeb47b) to head (b39fdbc).

Files	Patch %	Lines
datax/plugin/writer/dbms/batch_writer.go	0.00%	1 Missing :warning:
storage/database/mysql/field.go	50.00%	0 Missing and 1 partial :warning:

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```diff @@ Coverage Diff @@ ## main #41 +/- ## ========================================== - Coverage 92.41% 92.36% -0.05% ========================================== Files 124 124 Lines 6697 6697 ========================================== - Hits 6189 6186 -3 - Misses 404 406 +2 - Partials 104 105 +1 ```

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