[Bug] Reinstate default_driver build option

[fossfreedom]

Description

build on armhf fails

https://launchpadlibrarian.net/682033951/buildlog_ubuntu-mantic-armhf.magpie_0.9.2-0ubuntu1_BUILDING.txt.gz

Need to have a look at this part specifically since arm32 builds (at least under debian) require this default gles build option

Build type: native build

../meson.build:1:0: ERROR: Unknown options: "default_driver"
dh_auto_configure: error: cd obj-arm-linux-gnueabihf && DEB_PYTHON_INSTALL_LAYOUT=deb LC_ALL=C.UTF-8 meson setup .. --wrap-mode=nodownload --buildtype=plain --prefix=/usr --sysconfdir=/etc --localstatedir=/var --libdir=lib/arm-linux-gnueabihf -Dpython.bytecompile=-1 -Degl_device=true -Dremote_desktop=true -Ddefault_driver=gles2 returned exit code 1
make[1]: *** [debian/rules:40: override_dh_auto_configure] Error 25

Magpie version

0.9.2

Operating System

Ubuntu 23.10

Steps to reproduce the issue

Build for armhf

Actual result

See description

Expected result

clean build

Additional information

No response

[fossfreedom]

Actually - this issue was patched around apparently by Debian - lets look more closely at this since per distro patching isn't a buddies thing unless absolutely necessary

https://gitlab.gnome.org/GNOME/mutter/-/merge_requests/392

https://salsa.debian.org/gnome-team/mutter/-/blob/debian/bullseye/debian/patches/meson-add-back-default_driver-option.patch

[fossfreedom]

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