Refactor "tick" code to process all transforms first + render second [Performance]

[BurkusCat]

This should resolve "forced reflow" issues https://web.dev/avoid-large-complex-layouts-and-layout-thrashing/#avoid-forced-synchronous-layouts We will avoid measuring any attributes after adjusting them

• [x] Split processing of transform and rendering
  • [x] Relationship text
  • [x] Relationship outline
  • [x] Relationship overlays
• [x] Process all 3 in advance, and then render all 3
• [x] Relationship nodes split processing and rendering
  • [x] All four relationship entity's processing moved to happen first before rendering
• [x] Refactor processing code to look nicer/be more robust