feat: standardized peerdas metrics

[matthewkeil]

Motivation

Pari requested that these standardized metrics be added to Lodestar. Once matrix reconstruction is implemented, will implement the metrics in that function, added them to the metrics object for now though so they are available in that PR.

https://discord.com/channels/595666850260713488/1252403418941624532/1285889840746856498

[nflaig]

There is a PR related to this https://github.com/ethereum/beacon-metrics/pull/13

[matthewkeil]

There is a PR related to this ethereum/beacon-metrics#13

Sweet. Ill read that more deeply. Looks like the branch I got these from is the one being merged in. Got it from Pari at ethpandops was looking for here: https://github.com/KatyaRyazantseva/beacon-metrics/blob/master/metrics.md#peerdas-metrics

Ill add the couple for gossip and what not

[matthewkeil]

The spec is still being hammered out so some of the metric names may change.

https://github.com/ethereum/beacon-metrics/pull/13

Will keep this PR open and update accordingly.

[matthewkeil]

Some of the metric were added in the gossipsub package here https://github.com/ChainSafe/js-libp2p-gossipsub/pull/508