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Perfectionism #19

Open Darviridis opened 1 year ago

Darviridis commented 1 year ago

I have encountered the struggle of not being able to allow myself to relax peacefully. I cannot simply sit down and unwind without doing anything. There is always something brewing inside me, and my thoughts wander in all directions, demanding productivity and achievements. I need to recharge, but I continue to strive for constant productivity, towards my ideal.

I constantly set incredibly high standards for myself. I want to be perfect in everything - self-improvement, relationships, sports, health, nutrition, projects.

Perfectionism can be incredibly draining. I spend a lot of energy trying to be 100% perfect, which leads to feelings of helplessness and stress.

I have realized that allowing myself to rest and not being perfect is not a sign of weakness, but rather a sign of strength. It allows for more flexibility and adaptability. Rest helps to replenish strength and energy, and the fact that I am not perfect means that I can learn and grow.

The world is not perfect, I am not perfect, and nothing can be perfect. It is important to learn to understand oneself, to feel when one needs rest, and to work on oneself not out of tension and a desire to prove oneself perfect, but out of a desire to develop and follow one's unique path at one's own pace, letting go of perfectionism in everything.