What do you think you need to know about a person in order to understand whether you will be interested in him or not? Maybe a joint hobby, field of activity, favorite music? No. This does not define a person. The most important thing to understand is the value system.
To understand a person's value system, it is necessary to understand what he attaches importance to, and what he does not. What is important for this person in life, and what is all the same. It is necessary to understand the depth, how much what is important to him differs from unimportant things.
Our values are the main thing that determines by what criteria we evaluate ourselves and everyone else.
What do you think you need to know about a person in order to understand whether you will be interested in him or not? Maybe a joint hobby, field of activity, favorite music? No. This does not define a person. The most important thing to understand is the value system.
To understand a person's value system, it is necessary to understand what he attaches importance to, and what he does not. What is important for this person in life, and what is all the same. It is necessary to understand the depth, how much what is important to him differs from unimportant things.
Our values are the main thing that determines by what criteria we evaluate ourselves and everyone else.