Upgrade `controller-runtime`, k8s dependencies and switch leader election lock to `leases`

[levan-m]

What does this PR do?

Notable changes:

• controller-runtime 0.15.x -> 0.16.0 - didn't update to latest of 0.16.x as fake caused test failures.
• k8s APIs 0.27.7 -> 0.28.9
• Make leases default leader election resource lock, as others are deprecated.

  {"level":"ERROR","ts":"2024-05-20T18:35:44Z","logger":"setup","msg":"unable to start manager","error":"configmapsleases lock is removed, migrated to leases"}

0.16.0 release notes here.

https://github.com/kubernetes-sigs/controller-runtime/pull/2407 https://github.com/kubernetes-sigs/controller-runtime/pull/2422

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