Open ElectricRCAircraftGuy opened 3 years ago
Posted to LinkedIn just now: https://www.linkedin.com/posts/gabriel-staples_blue-collar-vs-white-collar-mentalities-on-activity-7001066969034629120-hta-?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_desktop
Blue Collar:
White Collar:
College is actually a really big topic. There are a lot of nuances to it that would require a lot more discussion, such as the value of a prestigious school (it has huge value in networking and being scouted for top tech jobs), the value of internships (they are critical), the value of personal projects (they make you an engineer, for instance, NOT your engineering classes!), the value of slowing down to understand (5-6 years understanding your material is better than 4 years of crushing through it), learning to lead and influence your school peers and partners is just as important as (or more important than) learning the equations and completing the project, etc.
You are at McDonald's as a family and you receive the wrong order: they put mustard on your burger when you said no mustard. What do you do? If you are a kid, what do your parents make you do?
Blue collar teachings say: "suck it up. Be grateful for what you have. Just eat it and be thankful you have a burger at all." This teaching focuses on gratitude and humility and not being wasteful.
White collar teachings say: "go to the counter and ask for a new burger. They didn't give you what you ordered. Ask them to make it again." This teaching focuses on contractual relationships and fulfilling one's contractual obligation (they contracted with you to provide a certain good at a certain cost, and they didn't fulfill their end of the contract and provide you with what was ordered). It teaches conflict resolution be confronting the conflict rather than avoiding it.
Which teaching is better? I think it depends. It depends on which teaching and skill you are lacking. If you already know how to be humble and grateful and do without, then not learning how to confront this conflict is a HUGE disservice. You will be less likely to navigate conflicts successfully throughout your life. Conversely, if your kid is a spoiled rich brat who gets whatever he wants, they should learn the blue collar teaching and learn to do without. But, even more valuable is to learn to deal with conflict respectfully. So, I guess I've changed my mind: so long as you have learned the blue collar teaching, the white collar one is better. It is a higher plain of learning and will lead to greater success.