host: fix build with DPDK v22.11 LTS

[bluca]

Some defines were changed, and a header is no longer recursively included so needs to be specified given its definitions are used directly.

Pull Request Details

Fix build with DPDK v22.11, while maintaining compatibility with older versions

Testing Done

Build-tested only

Checklist

• [x] I have read the CONTRIBUTING document.
• [x] My code follows the code style of this project. See CODING.md.
• [ ] I have updated the documentation accordingly.
• [ ] I have added tests to cover my changes, and all previous tests pass.
• [ ] I have checked all compat numbers if they need updating (FPGA compat, MPM compat, noc_shell, specific RFNoC block, ...)