Bugfix(layoutSize) fix item not render after initial data size is empty

This PR address two issues

if layoutSize is provided, items doesn't render if the initial data size is empty.

add new function to componentCompact to allow extended component to had access to the _hasRenderOnce

only assign the state is the component never get render before

Here is the screen capture i had for the Shopify POS that reproduce the issue

BEFORE

AFTER

after fixing issue 1, when navigate to the list. the content size will increase by the estimatedItemSize

here is the screenshot and video demo on SHOPIFY POS on the issue

Flipkart / recyclerlistview