Update containers to NodeJS 18 base

[hardillb]

part of https://github.com/FlowFuse/flowfuse/issues/2245

Description

Bump base containers to NodeJS 18 to pick up CVE updates

Related Issue(s)

Checklist

• [x] I have read the contribution guidelines
• [ ] Suitable unit/system level tests have been added and they pass
• [ ] Documentation has been updated
  • [ ] Upgrade instructions
  • [ ] Configuration details
  • [ ] Concepts
• [ ] Changes flowforge.yml?
  • [ ] Issue/PR raised on FlowFuse/helm to update ConfigMap Template
  • [ ] Issue/PR raised on FlowFuse/CloudProject to update values for Staging/Production

Labels

• [ ] Backport needed? -> add the backport label
• [ ] Includes a DB migration? -> add the area:migration label