Add storage path to /data

[hardillb]

pre-req for https://github.com/FlowFuse/nr-launcher/pull/250

Description

Also sync up node-red-container/Dockerfile with Helm so the same default base container is build locally

Related Issue(s)

Checklist

• [x] I have read the contribution guidelines
• [ ] Suitable unit/system level tests have been added and they pass
• [ ] Documentation has been updated
  • [ ] Upgrade instructions
  • [ ] Configuration details
  • [ ] Concepts
• [ ] Changes flowforge.yml?
  • [ ] Issue/PR raised on FlowFuse/helm to update ConfigMap Template
  • [ ] Issue/PR raised on FlowFuse/CloudProject to update values for Staging/Production

Labels

• [ ] Includes a DB migration? -> add the area:migration label