[Feature] ch20507 add sshBastionServer.customHostname in PrimeHub values

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• [x] Ensure you have added or ran the appropriate tests for your PR.
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What type of PR is this? Feature

What this PR does / why we need it:

• If the customHostname is configurated, ssh server will show this hostname in jupyterhub spawner page.

Which issue(s) this PR fixes: ch20507

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Does this PR introduce a user-facing change?: