update CI settings and dependency compat versions

[johnnychen94]

Just realize that CI is automatically disabled in this repo because of the inactivity. Let's see if the fantastic PR #34 provided by @pxl-th passes the CI.

• scheduled github actions will now automatically get disabled after 30(or 60) days inactivity so here we remove the schedule task for our unit test.
• macos and windows CI resources are more limited so here I restrict it to only Julia 1.x version
• upgrade TagBot and CompatHelper configurations wrt their documentation (closes #31, closes #32)

This PR also updates the dependency versions (closes #29, closes #30)

[johnnychen94]

I've manually tested it locally that nightly build works.