chore(rocksdb): bump deps for rocksdb v8.10.0 (backport #1903)

[mergify[bot]]

Description

Bumps cometbft-db dependency. Update bumps grocksdb wrapper for use with rocksdb v8.10.0.

Checklist

• [x] Changelog has been updated as necessary.

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  This is an automatic backport of pull request #1903 done by Mergify.

[mergify[bot]]

Cherry-pick of 871e26670c6799e59cb186a7bb795f951c120867 has failed:

On branch mergify/bp/release/v0.26.x/pr-1903
Your branch is up to date with 'origin/release/v0.26.x'.

You are currently cherry-picking commit 871e2667.
  (fix conflicts and run "git cherry-pick --continue")
  (use "git cherry-pick --skip" to skip this patch)
  (use "git cherry-pick --abort" to cancel the cherry-pick operation)

Changes to be committed:
    modified:   go.mod

Unmerged paths:
  (use "git add <file>..." to mark resolution)
    both modified:   CHANGELOG.md
    both modified:   go.sum

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[pirtleshell]

i broke mergify's ci by force-pushing a rebase onto current release branch 🥴 i intend to merge assuming relevant ci tasks pass.