feat!: Improve permit join.

Match Controller API more closely to Adapter: (time, device?)
Clamp time to [0-254] (never forever)
Remove "forever permit join" (security concerns + sometimes unstable behavior)
- Fix https://github.com/Koenkk/zigbee-herdsman/issues/940
Remove reason (unused)
getPermitJoinTimeout returns [0-254] range, with 0 being "not permitting joining".
Remove getPermitJoin => use getPermitJoinTimeout instead (boolean easily determined on other end of mqtt transaction -see below-)
For Z2M: Less unnecessary mqtt data required/published in various places (/bridge/info, /request/permit_join)

TODO:

[x] https://github.com/Koenkk/zigbee2mqtt/pull/24257
[ ] ~Remove unnecessary mqtt publish of /bridge/info every time the permit join timer ticks (the other end of mqtt transaction should be responsible for the ticks, and z2m should only publish begin -possibly end for extra sync purposes-).~

Koenkk / zigbee-herdsman