fix: try recovering from gateway sync failure only on UpdateError

[czeslavo]

What this PR does / why we need it:

We should try recovering with the fallback configuration (either generated or the persisted last valid one) only if we get an expected UpdateError from the UpdateStrategy. Otherwise, we can assume the error is unrecoverable through the fallback configuration (e.g. transient network errors, gateways returning 5xx, etc.).

It relies on https://github.com/Kong/go-kong/pull/452.

Which issue this PR fixes:

Fixes https://github.com/Kong/kubernetes-ingress-controller/issues/6218.

PR Readiness Checklist:

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• [x] the CHANGELOG.md release notes have been updated to reflect any significant (and particularly user-facing) changes introduced by this PR

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Project coverage is 39.1%. Comparing base (3fa3bc7) to head (15f7a40).

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