Version bumps - Githubissues

Changes:

Replaced String dependencies to TOML accessors wherever possible
Added dependencyUpdates task that can be run to display which updates are available in a neat DataFrame. dependencyUpdateExclusions can be extended to prevent certain dependencies from showing up in the table.
Based on https://github.com/Kotlin/dataframe/pull/592
- Added kotlin.dataframe.add.ksp=false in gradle.properties
- Added explicit ksp plugin in each module

kotlin 1.9.0 -> 1.9.22
kotest-assertions 4.6.3 -> 5.5.4
- 5.8.0 is not possible due to https://github.com/Kotlin/dataframe/issues/595
kotlinJupyter 0.11.0-358 -> 0.12.0-139
- replaced deprecated exec() calls with execRendered()
kotlinPoet 1.12.0 -> 1.16.0
libsPublisher 0.0.60-dev-30 -> 1.8.10-dev-43
kover 0.6.0-Beta -> 0.6.1
- https://github.com/Kotlin/dataframe/issues/594
commonsCsv 1.8 -> 1.10.0
commonsCompress 1.21 -> 1.26.0
poi 5.2.2 -> 5.2.5
mariadb 3.1.4 -> 3.3.2
h2db 2.2.220 -> 2.2.224
PostgreSQL 42.6.0 -> 42.7.1
sqlite 3.42.0.1 -> 3.45.1.0
kotlinx datetime 0.4.0 -> 0.5.0
openapi swagger 2.1.13 -> 2.1.20
kotlinlogging 5.0.1 -> 6.0.3
sl4j 2.0.7 -> 2.0.12
jsoup 1.14.3 -> 1.17.2
arrow 11.0.0 -> 15.0.0
JUnit jupiter to 5.10.2
JUnit platform to 1.10.2
- dependencyVersions new! 0.51.0
- Gradle plugin-publish 0.15.0 -> 1.2.1
- shadow 7.1.2 -> 8.1.1
- ktor server netty 1.6.7 -> 2.3.8