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Can relationships be non-transactional? #6

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utterances-bot commented 1 year ago

Can relationships be non-transactional?

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https://macawls.github.io/blog/post/can-relationships-be-non-transactional/

Matthiasbrat commented 1 year ago

Damn, I've read it all and honestly, that's exactly how I've been feeling for the past 5months. Once you've seen what a human is capable of, it's hard to think you want the same things about them as before.

Some where I added some distance between people and myself, but the incomfort is less than when I loose others, or when they make me feel like we're not having a transactional friend/relation-ship.

In the end, I don't rather be alone, than with people I don't like, it's just that I'd rather not be their friend, so I can protect myself too from their disinterest about our relation or the fact that, as a human, I care for others.

My main goal now, is to be less caring for everything and everyone, so I can focus on caring on what really counts for me in everyday life and unexpected events in everyday life :). I call it ✨maturity✨.

Macawls commented 1 year ago

My main goal now, is to be less caring for everything and everyone, so I can focus on caring on what really counts for me in everyday life and unexpected events in everyday life :). I call it ✨maturity✨.

@Matthiasbrat Thats a great take on it ✨