Issue: 3697720 Fixes for segmentation faults

[iftahl]

1. Stop processing TCP timers in the main thread.
2. Add a locking mechanism for incoming TCP connections that haven't been accepted yet by the application.

Change type

What kind of change does this PR introduce?

• [x] Bugfix
• [ ] Feature
• [ ] Code style update
• [ ] Refactoring (no functional changes, no api changes)
• [ ] Build related changes
• [ ] CI related changes
• [ ] Documentation content changes
• [ ] Tests
• [ ] Other

Check list

• [ ] Code follows the style de facto guidelines of this project
• [ ] Comments have been inserted in hard to understand places
• [ ] Documentation has been updated (if necessary)
• [ ] Test has been added (if possible)

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