issue: 3947690 Storage API bugfixes

[pasis]

Description

Bugfixes:

• Send operations in ESTABLISHED event callback
• Buffer metadata corruption on xlio_buf::userdata usage

What

Bugfixes

Why ?

Bugfixes

Change type

What kind of change does this PR introduce?

• [x] Bugfix
• [ ] Feature
• [ ] Code style update
• [ ] Refactoring (no functional changes, no api changes)
• [ ] Build related changes
• [ ] CI related changes
• [ ] Documentation content changes
• [ ] Tests
• [ ] Other

Check list

• [ ] Code follows the style de facto guidelines of this project
• [ ] Comments have been inserted in hard to understand places
• [ ] Documentation has been updated (if necessary)
• [ ] Test has been added (if possible)

[galnoam]

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