Upgrade to 0.10.2 + usability improvements

[hrl20]

• bump DuckDB jdbc to 0.10.2
• add motherduck_token field in the config which is passed as a connection parameter
• override the default temp dir name to something more reasonable
• add custom_user_agent so we know the usage of MotherDuck in conjunction with metabase/metabase-cloud
• Allow advanced options
• handle timestamp_s/ms/ns duckdb types
• explicit casting to timestamps so the date filtering functionality works even without old_implicit_casting.