Parallel build with limited resource

[phu0ngng]

Description

This PR adds an option for users to specify the maximum number of involved threads for the compilation of cpp codes by NVTE_MAX_BUILD_JOBS or MAX_JOBS env vars.

It works with both Ninja and Make.

Make now build with parallel by default.

Type of change

• [ ] Documentation change (change only to the documentation, either a fix or a new content)
• [ ] Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• [ ] New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• [ ] Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to not work as expected)
• [x] Infra/Build change
• [ ] Code refractor

Checklist:

• [x] I have read and followed the contributing guidelines
• [x] The functionality is complete
• [ ] I have commented my code, particularly in hard-to-understand areas
• [ ] I have made corresponding changes to the documentation
• [x] My changes generate no new warnings
• [ ] I have added tests that prove my fix is effective or that my feature works
• [ ] New and existing unit tests pass locally with my changes

[timmoon10]

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