[Server] Improve publishing operation to avoid discarding values in edge cases

[romanett]

Proposed changes

This PR improves publishing operation to avoid discarding values when a large queueSize is used for DataValues / Events or a large number of monitored items is created in a single subscription.

This fix changes the MonitoredItem Interface for the Publish Methods.

Types of changes

• [ ] Bugfix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• [ ] Enhancement (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• [ ] Test enhancement (non-breaking change to increase test coverage)
• [x] Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to not work as expected, requires version increase of Nuget packages)
• [ ] Documentation Update (if none of the other choices apply)

Checklist

• [x] I have read the CONTRIBUTING doc.
• [x] I have signed the CLA.
• [ ] I ran tests locally with my changes, all passed.
• [ ] I fixed all failing tests in the CI pipelines.
• [ ] I fixed all introduced issues with CodeQL and LGTM.
• [ ] I have added tests that prove my fix is effective or that my feature works and increased code coverage.
• [ ] I have added necessary documentation (if appropriate).
• [ ] Any dependent changes have been merged and published in downstream modules.

Further comments

This PR is needed for reliable operation of durable subscriptions.

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 88.57143% with 4 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 55.40%. Comparing base (a29d871) to head (409a51b). Report is 8 commits behind head on develop/main374.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
...raries/Opc.Ua.Server/Subscription/MonitoredItem.cs	92.85%	1 Missing and 1 partial :warning:
...braries/Opc.Ua.Server/Subscription/Subscription.cs	71.42%	1 Missing and 1 partial :warning:

Additional details and impacted files

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[mregen]

due to the breaking interface changes it has to be merged after a version bump

[romanett]

This PR does not need to be merged to develop/durable as it is already included in #2683

[mregen]

@romanett lets keep this PR as draft for now, maybe we want to use it already before the durable subscription release is ready.