pin macos runners to macos-12

[mikemhenry]

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[mikemhenry]

I think we should make macos-latest not a required check until we get the missing deps onto conda-forge, but we should keep it in the build matrix.

We should make macos-13 a required check.

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[mikemhenry]

We got one missing dep, a weird package hash error, and a issue with ambertools/charge backend :)

[IAlibay]

@mikemhenry for the sake of "getting CI back and running today", let's go with just pinning to macos-13. I've opened a separate issue to deal with arm64-osx in a separate PR.