[NPU] Cherry-picks from develop to release/3.0-beta

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[NPU] Cherry-picks from develop to release/3.0-beta

• https://github.com/PaddlePaddle/PaddleCustomDevice/pull/1270
• https://github.com/PaddlePaddle/PaddleCustomDevice/pull/1289
• https://github.com/PaddlePaddle/PaddleCustomDevice/pull/1308
• https://github.com/PaddlePaddle/PaddleCustomDevice/pull/1309
• https://github.com/PaddlePaddle/PaddleCustomDevice/pull/1320
• https://github.com/PaddlePaddle/PaddleCustomDevice/pull/1322

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