Prioritize Messaging

[Ategon]

Requirements

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Describe the feature you want

Instead of comment spamming prioritize dming instead if the user is on lemmy (doesnt work on other platforms due to dms not federating between them)

Requested by a user and putting it here to log it

Cant work on it for awhile but if someone else wants to feel free to make a pull request