Fix queue lock algorithm for `ParallelPSOKernel`

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[ ] Appropriate tests were added
[ ] Any code changes were done in a way that does not break public API
[ ] All documentation related to code changes were updated
[ ] The new code follows the contributor guidelines, in particular the SciML Style Guide and COLPRAC.
[ ] Any new documentation only uses public API

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