refactor: improve remake, use SII.remake_buffer, respect model defaults

[AayushSabharwal]

Checklist

• [ ] Appropriate tests were added
• [ ] Any code changes were done in a way that does not break public API
• [ ] All documentation related to code changes were updated
• [ ] The new code follows the contributor guidelines, in particular the SciML Style Guide and COLPRAC.
• [ ] Any new documentation only uses public API

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 88.67925% with 12 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 31.28%. Comparing base (7888fa4) to head (a437026).

Files	Patch %	Lines
src/remake.jl	89.21%	11 Missing :warning:
src/solutions/solution_interface.jl	0.00%	1 Missing :warning:

Additional details and impacted files

```diff @@ Coverage Diff @@ ## master #658 +/- ## ========================================== + Coverage 30.03% 31.28% +1.25% ========================================== Files 55 55 Lines 4309 4360 +51 ========================================== + Hits 1294 1364 +70 + Misses 3015 2996 -19 ```

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