ShannonChenCHN
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7 years ago 如何成为一个更好的交谈者
1. Don't multitask: Be present. Be in that moment.（不要三心二意，心不在焉）
2. Don't pontificate.（不要好为人师）
3. Use open-minded questions.（使用开放式的问题）
4. Go with the flow.（顺其自然）
5. If you don't know, say that you don't know.（知之为知之，不知为不知）
6. Don't equate your experience with theirs: conversations are not a promotional opportunity.(不要把自己的经历跟别人的经历比较，试图抬高自己)
7. Try not to repeat yourself.（不要老是重复说你自己的事）
8. Stay out of the weeds: people don't care about the details, what they care about is you. so forget the details in conversation.（少说废话）
9. Listen.（认真倾听）
- "If your mouth is open, you're not learning."
- "No one ever listened his way out of a job."
- "Most of us don't listen with the intent to understand. We listen with the intent to reply."
10.Be brief.（简明扼要）
A good conversation is like miniskirt, short enough to retain interest, but long enough to cover the subject.
Conclusion
- Be interested in other people.
- Go out, talk to people, listen to people, and most importantly, be prepared to be amazed.
内向性格的力量（Susan Cain）
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