[BugFix] Reject rename col which is referenced in rollup (backport #47714)

[mergify[bot]]

Why I'm doing:

Before renaming a column, delete the associated rollups, just like dropping a column.

What I'm doing:

Fixes #42823

What type of PR is this:

• [x] BugFix
• [ ] Feature
• [ ] Enhancement
• [ ] Refactor
• [ ] UT
• [ ] Doc
• [ ] Tool

Does this PR entail a change in behavior?

• [ ] Yes, this PR will result in a change in behavior.
• [x] No, this PR will not result in a change in behavior.

If yes, please specify the type of change:

• [ ] Interface/UI changes: syntax, type conversion, expression evaluation, display information
• [ ] Parameter changes: default values, similar parameters but with different default values
• [ ] Policy changes: use new policy to replace old one, functionality automatically enabled
• [ ] Feature removed
• [ ] Miscellaneous: upgrade & downgrade compatibility, etc.

Checklist:

• [ ] I have added test cases for my bug fix or my new feature
• [ ] This pr needs user documentation (for new or modified features or behaviors)
  • [ ] I have added documentation for my new feature or new function
• [x] This is a backport pr

Bugfix cherry-pick branch check:

• [x] I have checked the version labels which the pr will be auto-backported to the target branch
  • [x] 3.3
  • [x] 3.2
  • [x] 3.1
  • [ ] 3.0
  • [ ] 2.5

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    This is an automatic backport of pull request #47714 done by Mergify.

    Why I'm doing:

    Before renaming a column, delete the associated rollups, just like dropping a column.

What I'm doing:

Fixes #42823

What type of PR is this:

• [x] BugFix
• [ ] Feature
• [ ] Enhancement
• [ ] Refactor
• [ ] UT
• [ ] Doc
• [ ] Tool

Does this PR entail a change in behavior?

• [ ] Yes, this PR will result in a change in behavior.
• [x] No, this PR will not result in a change in behavior.

If yes, please specify the type of change:

• [ ] Interface/UI changes: syntax, type conversion, expression evaluation, display information
• [ ] Parameter changes: default values, similar parameters but with different default values
• [ ] Policy changes: use new policy to replace old one, functionality automatically enabled
• [ ] Feature removed
• [ ] Miscellaneous: upgrade & downgrade compatibility, etc.

Checklist:

• [ ] I have added test cases for my bug fix or my new feature
• [ ] This pr needs user documentation (for new or modified features or behaviors)
  • [ ] I have added documentation for my new feature or new function
• [x] This is a backport pr

[mergify[bot]]

Cherry-pick of 96c0ec212075f79342c22840b986f19420c59fe3 has failed:

On branch mergify/bp/branch-3.1/pr-47714
Your branch is up to date with 'origin/branch-3.1'.

You are currently cherry-picking commit 96c0ec2120.
  (fix conflicts and run "git cherry-pick --continue")
  (use "git cherry-pick --skip" to skip this patch)
  (use "git cherry-pick --abort" to cancel the cherry-pick operation)

Changes to be committed:
    modified:   fe/fe-core/src/main/java/com/starrocks/alter/SchemaChangeHandler.java

Unmerged paths:
  (use "git add <file>..." to mark resolution)
    both modified:   fe/fe-core/src/main/java/com/starrocks/alter/AlterJobMgr.java

To fix up this pull request, you can check it out locally. See documentation: https://docs.github.com/en/pull-requests/collaborating-with-pull-requests/reviewing-changes-in-pull-requests/checking-out-pull-requests-locally

[mergify[bot]]

@mergify[bot]: Backport conflict, please reslove the conflict and resubmit the pr