[Enhancement] Opt memory tracker for FE

[gengjun-git]

Why I'm doing:

SizeEstimator.estimate will calculate the retained size of the object, that is the size of the param object and all the referenced objects. This will lead to repeated counting when the same object is referenced by many objects, and result in very high resource usage when the param object refers to network object or GlobalMetaStore.

What I'm doing:

Change to ClassLayout to only calculate the shadow size of the object.

Fixes #issue

What type of PR is this:

• [ ] BugFix
• [ ] Feature
• [x] Enhancement
• [ ] Refactor
• [ ] UT
• [ ] Doc
• [ ] Tool

Does this PR entail a change in behavior?

• [ ] Yes, this PR will result in a change in behavior.
• [x] No, this PR will not result in a change in behavior.

If yes, please specify the type of change:

• [ ] Interface/UI changes: syntax, type conversion, expression evaluation, display information
• [ ] Parameter changes: default values, similar parameters but with different default values
• [ ] Policy changes: use new policy to replace old one, functionality automatically enabled
• [ ] Feature removed
• [ ] Miscellaneous: upgrade & downgrade compatibility, etc.

Checklist:

• [ ] I have added test cases for my bug fix or my new feature
• [ ] This pr needs user documentation (for new or modified features or behaviors)
  • [ ] I have added documentation for my new feature or new function
• [ ] This is a backport pr

Bugfix cherry-pick branch check:

• [x] I have checked the version labels which the pr will be auto-backported to the target branch
  • [x] 3.4
  • [x] 3.3
  • [x] 3.2
  • [ ] 3.1
  • [ ] 3.0

[HangyuanLiu]

Will this code still work for other types of JDK?

[gengjun-git]

@mergifyio rebase

[mergify[bot]]

rebase

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[Java-Extensions Incremental Coverage Report]

:white_check_mark: pass : 0 / 0 (0%)

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[FE Incremental Coverage Report]

:white_check_mark: pass : 5 / 5 (100.00%)

file detail

	path	covered_line	new_line	coverage	not_covered_line_detail
:large_blue_circle:	com/starrocks/memory/MemoryTrackable.java	5	5	100.00%	[]

[github-actions[bot]]

[BE Incremental Coverage Report]

:white_check_mark: pass : 0 / 0 (0%)

[github-actions[bot]]

@Mergifyio backport branch-3.4

[github-actions[bot]]

@Mergifyio backport branch-3.3

[github-actions[bot]]

@Mergifyio backport branch-3.2

[mergify[bot]]

backport branch-3.4

✅ Backports have been created

* [#53142 [Enhancement] Opt memory tracker for FE (backport #53055)](https://github.com/StarRocks/starrocks/pull/53142) has been created for branch `branch-3.4`

[mergify[bot]]

backport branch-3.3

✅ Backports have been created

* [#53143 [Enhancement] Opt memory tracker for FE (backport #53055)](https://github.com/StarRocks/starrocks/pull/53143) has been created for branch `branch-3.3`

[mergify[bot]]

backport branch-3.2

✅ Backports have been created

* [#53144 [Enhancement] Opt memory tracker for FE (backport #53055)](https://github.com/StarRocks/starrocks/pull/53144) has been created for branch `branch-3.2`