[BugFix] fix monitoring metrics for execute stmt (backport #52768)

Why I'm doing:

The QPS and query latency will not be monitored when a prepared select SQL is executed in JDBC

starrocks> select * FROM fe_metrics where NAME='qps';
+---------------------------------+------+------------------+-------+
| FE_ID                           | NAME | LABELS           | VALUE |
+---------------------------------+------+------------------+-------+
| xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx           | qps  | {"metric":"qps"} |     0 |
+---------------------------------+------+------------------+-------+
1 row in set (0.01 sec)

What I'm doing:

record prepared select SQLs executed in JDBC for qps and query latency when the value of AUDIT_EXECUTE_STMT is true

starrocks> select * FROM fe_metrics where NAME like 'qps';
+---------------------------------+------+------------------+-------+
| FE_ID                           | NAME | LABELS           | VALUE |
+---------------------------------+------+------------------+-------+
| xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx           | qps  | {"metric":"qps"} |   36  | 
+---------------------------------+------+------------------+-------+
1 row in set (0.01 sec)

Fixes #issue

What type of PR is this:

[x] BugFix
[ ] Feature
[ ] Enhancement
[ ] Refactor
[ ] UT
[ ] Doc
[ ] Tool

Does this PR entail a change in behavior?

[x] Yes, this PR will result in a change in behavior.
[ ] No, this PR will not result in a change in behavior.

If yes, please specify the type of change:

[ ] Interface/UI changes: syntax, type conversion, expression evaluation, display information
[ ] Parameter changes: default values, similar parameters but with different default values
[ ] Policy changes: use new policy to replace old one, functionality automatically enabled
[ ] Feature removed
[x] Miscellaneous: upgrade & downgrade compatibility, etc.

Checklist:

[x] I have added test cases for my bug fix or my new feature
[ ] This pr needs user documentation (for new or modified features or behaviors)
- [ ] I have added documentation for my new feature or new function
[x] This is a backport pr

Bugfix cherry-pick branch check:

[x] I have checked the version labels which the pr will be auto-backported to the target branch
- [x] 3.3
- [ ] 3.2
- [ ] 3.1
- [ ] 3.0
- [ ] 2.5
  This is an automatic backport of pull request #52768 done by Mergify.
  Why I'm doing:
  
  The QPS and query latency will not be monitored when a prepared select SQL is executed in JDBC

starrocks> select * FROM fe_metrics where NAME='qps';
+---------------------------------+------+------------------+-------+
| FE_ID                           | NAME | LABELS           | VALUE |
+---------------------------------+------+------------------+-------+
| xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx           | qps  | {"metric":"qps"} |     0 |
+---------------------------------+------+------------------+-------+
1 row in set (0.01 sec)