This ones short but the mods settings do not automatically sync over server, even if someone is set female/other locally, the server shows them as male until they manually change, in which then it syncs over the server correctly.
to reproduce load a 1.19.2 fabric server, optionally modded, and bring a friend, everyone join the server, using anything but male presets, checking the gender tab displays them as male, reguardless how they look locally
This ones short but the mods settings do not automatically sync over server, even if someone is set female/other locally, the server shows them as male until they manually change, in which then it syncs over the server correctly.
to reproduce load a 1.19.2 fabric server, optionally modded, and bring a friend, everyone join the server, using anything but male presets, checking the gender tab displays them as male, reguardless how they look locally