feat: add node 22 support

[mvadari]

High Level Overview of Change

This PR adds CI for Node 22 and updates all the actions to the latest versions.

Context of Change

node v22 was just released

Type of Change

• [x] Tests (You added tests for code that already exists, or your new feature included in this PR)

Test Plan

CI passes with node 22.

[mvadari]

This works locally, and in a Linux docker container, but not in CI for some reason.....

[mvadari]

This is likely related: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/52797