Align dev dependencies and linting with upstream

[jakob-keller]

Description of Change

Dev dependencies and linting deviate significantly between botocore (upstream) and aiobotocore. This PR works towards alignment by:

• leveraging pre-commit to orchestrate linting and bump hooks
• dropping dev dependencies covered by pre-commit
• bumping remaining dev dependencies
• including setuptools as dev dependency for Python >=3.12
• leveraging pyproject.toml to configure pytest
• leveraging setup.cfg to configure flake8

[codecov[bot]]

Codecov Report

Merging #1049 (e84b536) into master (718e40b) will increase coverage by 0.00%. The diff coverage is 100.00%.

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##           master    #1049   +/-   ##
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  Coverage   86.38%   86.39%           
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  Files          60       60           
  Lines        5803     5805    +2     
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+ Hits         5013     5015    +2     
  Misses        790      790           

Flag	Coverage Δ
unittests	86.39% <100.00%> (+<0.01%)	:arrow_up:

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Files	Coverage Δ
aiobotocore/credentials.py	88.62% <ø> (ø)
aiobotocore/session.py	78.84% <100.00%> (ø)
tests/boto_tests/test_credentials.py	98.22% <ø> (ø)
tests/python3.8/boto_tests/test_signers.py	100.00% <ø> (ø)
tests/test_config.py	100.00% <ø> (ø)
tests/test_patches.py	95.91% <ø> (ø)
tests/test_session.py	100.00% <ø> (ø)
tests/test_version.py	95.37% <100.00%> (+0.08%)	:arrow_up:

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[thehesiod]

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