Add `create_instance` method

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Introduce create_instance() with slight modifications from https://github.com/aleph-im/aleph-client/pull/156

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• The create_instance method has many parameters with default values, which can make it more challenging to understand its behavior without careful reading.
• It also utilizes multiple models from the aleph_message.models module and directly interacts with the session object's attributes, increasing the cognitive complexity of understanding its role in the system.
• The method is asynchronous, which adds another layer of complexity as it requires understanding of Python's asyncio framework.

These factors suggest that this PR should be reviewed by a developer with deep knowledge of the project and familiarity with the libraries used. It would be prudent to assign this PR to an experienced reviewer to minimize the risk of introducing bugs due to misunderstanding the complexity of these changes.