chore(nx): Upgrade to Nx 18

[jogelin]

• Upgrade Nx
• Align eslint configs
• Align jest configs
• Disable default typescript strictness for some libraries
• also compile build.ts and config.ts external of the src folder
• Align project configuration
• Stub inferred test targets for workspace and native-federation-e2e (see https://medium.com/@jgelin/target-exclusions-in-nx-project-crystal-fbabce816b21)